Its all about Kids
I used to wonder when my kids ( 4 Year Old , 2 Year Old) play with my smart phone. They would have observed me working on the phone for couple of times and now it looks like they are experts on my phone. How fast are these children getting accustomed to new technologies. This also pointed me to another side of parenting. How fast are these kids picking up from what their parents do. I am sure mobile phones are completely a new entity for a kid. Unless he/she observes and learn, he will not be able to understand the device. Look at their observation power. They grab the thing so fast that even by 50 year old mother struggles for months to study about the same smart phone. How does all these happen ?
Kids do have tremendous observation skills and most of their learning happens through observing. They keenly observe each and every thing happening around them and it gets stored in their brain very quickly. This is because the brain is very new and all the learning are new learning's . The way a parent talk, the way he interacts, the way he works, the way he shouts, the way he gets angry...everything gets recorded in the minds of the children. They are very silent observers. But the pace at which they learn things is very quick.
We parents have a great role here. Our behavior is observed by some one. Their character gets formed based on how we behave. You can talk good things at home, they pick up good. You can get angry, they learn about anger. You can be soft, they become mild. You can work hard, they understand the importance of working. You can ignore them, they become lonely.
The life of our children is in our hands ; We can make or break them. You can make then Angels provided you be angels to them. You can make them thieves if you are a thief in front of them.
Kids do have tremendous observation skills and most of their learning happens through observing. They keenly observe each and every thing happening around them and it gets stored in their brain very quickly. This is because the brain is very new and all the learning are new learning's . The way a parent talk, the way he interacts, the way he works, the way he shouts, the way he gets angry...everything gets recorded in the minds of the children. They are very silent observers. But the pace at which they learn things is very quick.
We parents have a great role here. Our behavior is observed by some one. Their character gets formed based on how we behave. You can talk good things at home, they pick up good. You can get angry, they learn about anger. You can be soft, they become mild. You can work hard, they understand the importance of working. You can ignore them, they become lonely.
The life of our children is in our hands ; We can make or break them. You can make then Angels provided you be angels to them. You can make them thieves if you are a thief in front of them.
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